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Tammy Duffek
March 12, 1975 - May 9, 2021

Tammy Duffek

Tammy Duffek
Mar 12, 1975 - May 9, 2021

Tammy Duffek
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Tammy Duffek, age 46, of Ames, Iowa, died at her home on Sunday, May 9, 2021.

No public memorial service will be held at this time. Condolences may be expressed online at www.amesmonument.com.


Tammy was born March 12, 1975, in Maricopa, Arizona, the daughter of Rube Lee and Cynthia Madeline (Bell) Neighbors.

She was married to Otilio Trejo Trejo on October 29, 1993, in Des Moines, Iowa.

Tammy loved reading and writing poems, and especially treasured the relationship she shared with her grandchildren.
She is survived by her husband, Otilio; six children, Sean Duffek-Callaway, Kyle Duffek-Callaway, Jodeci Duffek, Javon Dayvon Trejo-Duffek, and Janeva Cynthea Trejo-Brumbaugh; and several grandchildren, including Aaliyah, Joel, and Marcelo Trejo.

She was preceded in death by her parents and a sister.

Ames Monument & Cremation Center has been entrusted with the care of Tammy and her family.

 
 

Debi Myers. on Sep 25, 2023

I was looking for you on Facebook hadn’t heard from you a long time. Now I found you. I am so sorry I wasn’t there for you. You had a rough life from the age 14 on. You were a sweet girl and lost your mom and sister too early. Leaving you with no one. No more suffering and pain. No more trouble with your kids, I do hope they get their lives together and have a better life than you. Love you forever.
Debi Jordan-Myers
I think of your mom and sister everytime a special song comes on that your mom & dad danced to one time.
Say hello to your mom and sister

Jodaci on May 27, 2021

R.I.P i miss you mom i really do im sorry i was a hard kid im sorry i never told tou i loved you more im sorry i wasnt there for you last few days im sorry i wasn't in town im sorry you never got to meet ur grand daughter im sorry for all the times i talked down on you and most of all im sorry for hating u i understand why you left me at that hospital you wanted what was best for me and i thank you i hope i grew up to be that young man you wanted me to be i saw you in a dream last night you told me lifes hadd but to keep looking forward i cried for you...i tried to call your phone knowing you were gone and it upsets me not hearing your voice...a message to my sisters Janeva and Selena im here for you no matter what i know our relationship was rocky then and im willing to apologize and say sorry for everything.

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